We’ve all been there, that moment you lose your mind, rant and rave about some such thing, lecture till they bleed from the ears.
For whose benefit is this?
What outcome do you hope to achieve?
How long do you think they’ll remember the lesson?
Perhaps it’s better to step back before you lose your cool, and think about how you’ll approach the situation.
Did they mean to cause chaos?
What wrecking the lounge/wall/cupboard format on their mind?
Was it intentional?
Once you answer these questions then you’ll be closer to knowing how to act.