There are two types of bed time in a household, your kids bedtime and yours.
Kids bedtime: You hangout for this one, the kids don’t. It’s always a fight, struggle, event.
Your bedtime: You try to hold this off for as long as possible, but always succumb to it earlier than you want. It’s always a fight, struggle, event to prevent it from happening.
So in the end they’re not all that different.