The more kids you have the more diversity you’ll get, they’re all a lot alike but also very different. The truck to this much diversity is embracing it as much as possible.
Each kid will need something different to thrive, it’s your job as a parent to provide them with it, but also be stern and provide boundaries.
Being a parent is not being a push over, kids need to know that society has rules and that sometimes, if not always, they need to work for things.
Provide those lessons.